Love Songs... Why are there so many?

I would like to start by saying this is not a direct response to anyone. Try not to be offended and I'll try to not be offensive. :P

I am of the opinion, and this is my opinion, nothing more, that love songs are the easy route to take when it comes to songwriting. If you look at the top five songs on the radio, I'd guess all of them are love songs. Love is something that comes easily to us because it so closely aligns with our hearts and emotions. That makes it great if you want people to relate to your music. However, it takes a more impressive songwriter to make your audience relate to you without divulging your freedom to the topic of love, or even "like" as the case may be.

This is one, but not the greatest, of my reasons for not writing love songs. Personally, I'm waiting till I have someone to call my own before I write a song about someone. Otherwise, time could steal them away from me and leave me with a larger scar than it already would. I'm waiting till I can sing them to her to write them.

The point, however, was that love is such an easy topic to write on. Write on the children in Africa starving because they don't have enough to eat. Write me a song about the coexistence of chaos and order. Write me a song about your every day life. Okay. Now do it well, then I'll be impressed.

I don't know, perhaps I'm alone in these ideas. Perhaps other people find love songs hard to write. Perhaps I'm out of fashion, I honestly don't know.

I do know that in my opinion, an impressive song written about love is easily defeated by one written of equal merit on another topic. I know it's more difficult. That's why I've brought it up. Think of this as a challenge to all you songwriters out there.

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Unknown said...

I have a topic for a song....Let's write about how Stevie Parris offended all of the song writers by telling the world how stupid their love songs were....yeah that'll be good....

teehee....jk brotha :D

Bee said...

As a songwriter, this is a topic that fascinates me. It is true most songs are about romantic love. I highly recommend a songwriting manual by Sheila Davis for an in-depth review of this topic.

Your observation about there mostly being love songs is obviously correct though. Your reasons for not wanting to write love songs makes sense.

However, I've had a lot of those painful love songs help me through some painful times. I don't listen to all happy and contented music. I like to have some of that around, such as Never Alone or One Day You Will by Lady Antebellum. But honestly, it's those heartbreak songs that get me through heartbreak. (Well, except for one particularly memorable night where I was so devastated I just cranked up Tonight, Tonight by Hot Chelle Rae because it was the furthest thing from what I was trying to get off my mind. But I digress.)

As for me, I do write love songs. Interestingly, practically none are about the two people I actually dated. They're about someone I lost. In my case, writing about it didn't make me dwell on it. It was more of a... a purge. Or a healing exercise. And now I can sing those songs and it's just a story to me, it's not like re-opening a wound.

As with anything, it's all in your perspective. If writing a love song will make you obsess, then it's better not to write one. If writing a love song can help you put it all behind you... then write one. Of course, prayer is the only thing that really helped me put that whole situation behind me.

And that's not to say I don't write about other things. But yes, romantic love is on most songwriters' minds, it would appear. And it's easy. But what I appreciate about love songs is that no one's story is exactly the same. (Although then again, my case was pretty weird even as far as weird love stories/heartbreak stories go.)

Interesting topic.

BEE.

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